Everyone needs to be able to relate... even if that someone is only two.
My sweet little girl (River, age 2) fell from the pew during worship service this past Sunday. She's not usually much of a complainer so when she threw such a fuss, I knew something was wrong. Now, to figure out what... Everyone that had witnessed the fall said that she hit her head. Naturally, that's where I focused my attention. She was crying so hard that she couldn't tell me what was wrong. Was she just shook up, or hurt? I wasn't sure. Eventually she let me know that her 'foot' hurt. Come to find out [after a couple hours, and a trip to the ER] she had broken her little leg.
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The tears that came when the pain set in, broke my heart. She would be herself. Then, as the ibuprofen wore off, she would change. She'd cry, and whine, and kick and squirm. She was so uncomfortable. All I could do is comfort her and treat her with the pain relievers to try and dull the pain.
On top of the pain, I could tell that she was scared. What IS this thing on my leg, mom? "Take It OFF, Mommy. I don't want it! I want it OFF" she kept saying. How do you comfort someone so little through something like that? Here's how I helped my 2 year old feel more secure about the cast on her leg. . .
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Her grandma had sent her a new baby doll to help busy her as she recouped. The day after it came in the mail, River was having a hard time coping when her medicine would wear off. Each time, I would sit with her and play, talk, or sing to her to keep her mind off of the pain. Mid morning, she and I sat down and 'doctored' her baby. We gave it a 'band-aid' just like she has. First the 'sock'... then the padding... finally the colorful [coban] outside. (I wish I had though to do this BEFORE we went to the Orthopedic doctor. She would have better understood what was going to happen to her.) She stopped pulling at her cast. Stopped asking to have it taken off. Now, every-time she starts to be bothered by it, she just asks for her baby, and comforts her the way that she wants comforted. She is turning into such an caring little momma and doing a great job of teaching mommy just what she needs in order to feel better. For now she still hasn't stopped crying out in pain every few hours, but she is coping with the discomfort and unfamiliarity
of having her leg casted much better.
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I love when I have the opportunity to allow my blessings to take the lead and show me what they desire from me. I take comfort when they are able to 'show' me what they need, when they might now know the words to tell me. I pray that you will never have to see your little one through a painful time, but if you do... I HIGHLY recommend giving them a way to relate to what's going on, and if they are too little to communicate effectively, give them an outlet to show you what they're feeling.
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